My story begins many decades ago, in the 1970’s, when I was foster parent to a child with special needs and behavior problems. I got up every day and tried to be so quiet, fearing that he would wake up and ruin the morning. I tried to get help from specialists who at the time advised me to just pull his hair really hard- because that would not leave bruises. I knew there must be a better way. Thus began my career and my life’s work: to help parents who are raising challenging children. I completed my Bachelor’s degree in Special Education (University of Alberta, Canada), and went on to get a Master of Arts Degree in Applied Behavioral Sciences (Whitworth College, Spokane, Washington).
Since that time I have been a Licensed Psychologist in the Province of Alberta (1982-2006), and a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) in the state of Washington (1994-present). I have over 30 years experience helping parents, teachers and therapists to cope effectively with children’s challenging behavior in home, school, clinic and daycare settings. I have provided teacher and parent training in both Canada and the United States regarding behavior problems and learning disabilities including ADHD, Sensory Integration Disorder, Asperger Syndrome, Autism, Reactive Attachment Disorder, and Oppositional Defiant Disorder. I have written and developed training materials, videos, books and manuals for schools, hospitals and other agencies.
In all those years I have witnessed many evolutions in the way children with behavior problems are treated. When I came across the work of Dr. Ross Greene around 2005, I knew that I had finally found an effective approach that best fit with my values. Dr. Greene’s Collaborative & Proactive Solutions model (CPS) is research-based and proven to durably solve the underlying problems that lead to unwanted behaviors in a humane, compassionate, and relationship-building way.
In 2011, I completed Provider Certification Training in the use of Dr. Ross Greene’s Collaborative & Proactive Solutions (CPS) model.
In 2013, my husband Terry Sterrenberg (Certified Gottman Couples Therapist) and I closed our counseling office in Kirkland, Washington and in 2015 we relocated to New York to be closer to our two grown sons who live in Brooklyn.
Terry is now retired, and I continue to see clients online via Zoom or Doxy.me or in some cases via telephone. In my online practice, I provide consultation to parents and teachers regarding the application of Dr. Greene’s model as it applies to a particular child or student. You can get started here.
Dr. Ross Greene’s model (CPS), as described in his books The Explosive Child and Lost at School, has been used successfully in families, schools, hospitals and juvenile correction settings to help children and teens who have difficulty with transitions, or who are anxious, inflexible, aggressive or explosive.
Terry & I also have a small video production company called Educational Videos Plus. In 2014 we produced a video series with Dr. Greene called Transforming Discipline, which is about the use of the CPS model in elementary schools.
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